I Will Be His Dominator

But first, I need to overcome my insecurities.

My partner and I have a very diverse sex life. Being both kinksters, both into BDSM and sex-positive explorers, we are open to trying anything sexually related.

Because my partner, Mr P., has been living his sexuality in full for much longer than I did, there’s not much he hasn’t tried. Unlike me, that for the last six months have been saying “this is a first” over and over again.

I’m so happy and proud of myself for being in this place of comfort; for giving me the chance to let go of my mental restraints and finally have released my true sexual self.

Mr P. is a pleaser, the same way I am. Every time one of us says “I’d like to try this” or “I’m in the mood for”, that’s exactly what happens. Even if it’s not immediately, soon, one offers the other their sexual desire.

The most spectacular thing about having sex with someone you’re tuned with is that the giver gets as much pleasure as the receiver.

There were several times when Mr P. and I fulfilled each other’s desires, like when he was in the mood for playing with rope bondage or to have electrosex.

From my side, I’ve asked to be spanked, to play wax, to go to a dungeon (this request is still on hold, because of the pandemic.) He also bought us new sex toys — the ones I once told him I wanted to try —, and, for me, he tried for the first time doing dirty talk.

Our sexuality is built on the ground that one always pleases the other.

Yesterday, Mr P. and I were talking about the piece I had published, where I talk about my first real sexual fantasy.

The conversation went on, both talking about potential fantasies. It was a great moment, lots of laughs with a sweet complicity.

We agreed that the next weekend, he’s going to satisfy another fantasy I have: to be blindfolded, hands and feet tied to the bed, and with headphones on, playing my “hot sex” playlist, while he flogs me and does all the delicious things he does to me when I’m at his mercy.

Because I like us to be balanced, I told Mr P. to choose one of his fantasies so I’d make it come true. He answered me, in detail.

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